Wednesday, July 16, 2014

LET'S START AT THE VERY BEGINNING...

 
 … A very good place to start! I bet you can hear it now -- the voice of Maria from Sound of Music singing this phrase at the beginning of Do-Re-Mi! We love that movie so we thought it was appropriate to claim that lyric for the title of our post this week. We want to take you back to the very beginning and tell you where this whole “TEAM D” thing came from and how our love story began. Before we dig into that, we want to warn you. Each post will involve a challenge. Last week, we asked you to dream big and pray bold. We told you our love of the verse Eph. 3:20. We want this blog to be more than just a place for us to tell our life stories. We want you to experience God’s love in these stories. We desire for you to be challenged! So go on, get your “swords” out, look up life-giving scriptures, accept a challenge and hopefully we can experience God together. With transparency, we want to tell stories of God’s goodness and also share the names of those who have helped mold us into who and where we are today. With that being said….let’s start at the very beginning.

In November of 1999, Becca wrecked her car on the way to the oral surgeon. She recently had her wisdom teeth removed (which later in life she found a 5th wisdom tooth…one in a million!) and had a wonderful case of dry socket. On her rush to the doctor, she wasn’t paying attention and rear ended the man in front of her. It tore up her Blazer (interesting fact: Nathan and Becca both had chevy blazers as first cars) and her parents were going to make her pay the deductible. As a result, Becca would have to get a job over Christmas break. The only job that was available for quick work was working at Proffitt’s department store. There she met a girl named Christa Clancy (thank you Christa for changing both of our lives so much! We are so thankful for you!) . Christa and Becca immediately became friends. Christa immediately wanted Becca to meet her friend Nathan. Nathan came in to “visit” the store and it was love at first sight…well kind of.

We kept thinking of each other often. God provided us with divine appointments. Recently we read in the book Praying Circles Around Your Children, this quote which so directly speaks to us: “Only God can make the divine appointments, but only YOU can keep the divine appointments.”   At that time, we thought it was weird coincidences but looking back we know those “meet-cutes” were divine appointments. Don’t you just love those! I mean who runs 15 minutes late to church? We both did and ran into each other on a random Sunday morning in Jan. of 2000. We still occasionally run late to church. J Seeing each other that Sunday was just another moment where we thought, this could be something. Later in the spring we were both at a party where we seemed to be the only sober ones. As many of you know, when you are the only sober ones you tend to bond immediately if nothing else over making fun of the others. That night we sat in a corner and talked…talked about our faith, our dreams (BIG ONES) and our families. We connected that night on a level spiritually. And when that happens, God starts moving.

 In May of 2000, Nathan went with Christa to Becca’s graduation party. At that time, we were both dating others so it was just a “friend” thing.  We are sure God was laughing at how we were living out our own plans but He knew so much more was up ahead. That summer we stayed in touch and even hung out a few times. Nathan took Becca to see the play Annie  (a favorite for Becca as well as Nathan). To this day, we still discuss whether this was a date or not (It was). By the way, a new Annie comes out this December! Team D will be there opening night!  Well, it wasn’t long before Becca was headed to Harding University and Nathan was staying in Nashville at Lipscomb. The next 6 months were spent getting to know each other long distance. Nathan pursued Becca via emails (old school version of texting) and care packages. In December of 2000 we made it “official”. In June of 2001, after receiving a blessing from Becca’s parents in April, Nathan surprised Becca with a proposal on the beach while her family was on vacation in Ft. Walton Beach (crazy, that is where we live now!). In December of 2001, we were married! The month of December has great significance as that is the month we first met, became serious and married… all in just two years.  But with God there is not time. A day in His courts is like a thousand elsewhere. He can accelerate time in any way He wants. Let that soak in for a minute. That is why relationships built on Him grow quickly. When He is at the center, time is not a factor.

 We were young. We were in love. We are still in love! When God has a plan to bring people together, whether for marriage or friendship, it is amazing how He uses their talents and gifts to complement each other. We are two very different people. One of us is quiet, strong, disciplined and kind. The other is outgoing, bold, compassionate, and full of life. We will let you guess which is which.  Oh, we can’t leave out our other teammate. Fenley is shy (at first), Spirit-filled, sweet and sometimes sassy. We each have very different gifts and personalities. We love differently and feel love differently. But we both seek the Lord. We are not perfect, but we complement each other. We have become a TEAM.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 Two are better than one,
    because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
    one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
    and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
    But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
    two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

The word TEAM has had great meaning in both our lives but continues to even have a stronger value. We call ourselves TEAM D because that is what we are. We are a team. We are 3 people made up of different talents but with the same ultimate goal. We also have others that join us. We have great families that have a strong love for the Lord. We have our friends that mean the world to us. We have been blessed with so many that are a part of our story…a part of our TEAM. When we sit back and think about all of our teammates over the last few years, we are blown away at the goodness of God and who He places on our team. All of our teammates are so different yet all have the same goal of joining the Almighty in Heaven one day!

 

We love “stacking it up” with our team. Whether it is with the track team at Ezell, the Viking football team, in the pool after swim lessons, or tucking Fenley in at bedtime, we have grown to love the act of stacking it up. Putting your hands in a pile and saying the same thing at once and then throwing your hands up has great meaning. It is not just stacking it up, you are claiming victory together! Earth is better with those we enjoy it with and Heaven will be too! And it is together that we live and love this life and it is together that we claim victory! We are so grateful for all those we stack it up in life with. Who do you stack it up with? We want to challenge you this week to think about this. Maybe write those people a letter, send them a text, or call them. Let them know you are grateful that they are there for you in life to claim victory. Let them know that you are thankful that if you fall down, they are there to pick you up like Ecclesiastes says. In every relationship, remember to keep HIM at the center for that strand is not easily broken.

 
A few extras this week…

Since we began talking about the Sound of Music, here are “a few of our favorite things” right now. When you have time, check these things out and maybe they will speak to you:

Song: “Do Something” by Matthew West Song here!

Movie: A Perfect Game (found on Netflix)

Books: Circle Maker by Mark Batterson and Season of Life by Jeffrey Mar x  (Thanks to Janna Beth Hunt for this book that she gave Nathan to read about coaching)

 

 






Monday, July 7, 2014

More Than You Can Imagine


One year ago today, Nathan got in the car (another blessing in itself btw) and made the 400+ mile drive southbound to start our adventure. With 7/7/14 being the anniversary we feel it is time to share this testimony of the Lord’s goodness. We have wanted to share our testimony of our move to Florida for some time now but sometimes we just get distracted and too busy. Well, that ends today. God’s generosity and faithfulness must be shared NOW! We fully realize how incredible this story is and we want to pass it on. We only share this story to ultimately give God the glory for the way He answers prayer and keeps us dreaming big. Recently, we read the following passage in Mark Batterson’s book, Circle Maker:  “Dreaming is a form of praying. BOLD prayers honor God and God honors bold prayers. God isn’t offended by your biggest dreams or boldest prayers. He is offended by anything less.” WOW. Let that soak in.  And while the salty beach air blows through the palm branches just outside our condo balcony, so begins our ongoing story…


In January 2013 we talked about choosing a family bible verse to guide us through the year. We wanted to claim a message we would cling to in times of trouble and one we would grasp the true meaning of throughout the year. We believe that learning scripture is huge but daily verses sometimes don’t have the power to really set in. After some thought we chose Ephesians 3:20 “now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His purpose that is at work within us, to Him be glory.” Okay, God…we know you want to do MORE than we can possibly imagine. What does that look like? What do you want from Team Daniel? We started having conversations and asking God to help us see what “more than all we could ask or imagine” looked like for us.


One night while sitting on our couch after a tough day for both of us, we talked about what it would look like to move away. On a typical “pros and cons” list, our families, church body, and friends dominated the list with what we loved about Nashville, TN. We knew moving away from those we loved would be tough but wondered if God could be calling us somewhere else. We spent many nights dreaming about where we could go. We talked about what we could do, how we could broaden our horizons, and how/where God could use us.  We began to picture ourselves in Florida, immersing ourselves in this clear vision of life on the Emerald Coast. We put pictures on our refrigerator and clear images in our minds, all very simple reminders to pray BIG. Along with this vision we started praying BIG, BOLD prayers as a couple and as a family. “God, take us where you want us. Take us where you can use us. Take us where we can focus on you and each other and do your work while still maintaining relationships with our families and friends here in TN.” Looking back now, we know that God must have been smiling so big knowing what He had in store for us.

 
We decided in late January to pursue job options in the panhandle of Florida. Becca’s family had close ties to people in Fort Walton Beach and this location seemed like a logical place to start. Becca also knew a family that had recently moved to Pensacola for a ministry position, Jeremy and Jessica Swindle (We met Jessica through RAVE events over the years). Emails and phone calls went out to these family ties and connections as we continued to pray and dream. Dream. &. Pray.  


In February 2013, Nathan sent some cold emails to schools all along the panhandle, mainly in Escambia, Santa Rosa, Okaloosa, and Walton counties.  We knew we would love to be at Fort Walton Beach HS but knew that we needed to keep our options open in the search. Nathan was excited about the possibility of coaching high school football in Florida, and we were confident that Becca could still do RAVE anywhere and find something else to supplement our income. We knew Fenley would adjust well and love the water! The late winter brought new lows. Days became long and monotonous as we longed for a change. God seemed to be preparing our hearts. Though we were down, we did not lose hope and kept dreaming, kept praying. One day in the midst of a terrible day Nathan was having in March, Becca felt compelled to remind Nathan to not give up hope.  Becca sent the pic stitch collage of 4 pictures that is seen here with clear images of what it might look like to live in Florida one day. Along with the picture were the words “Dream Big, Keep praying, God will provide.” We have kept this picture all this time to remind us how great God is and how He loves to give his children good gifts. Who knew a pic could really be laying out the way for these blessings!


In late April we decided to take a leap of faith and go to Florida. We planned to stay with the Swindles and have Nathan just go school to school and show up and let them meet him. We knew face to face was way better than only emails. We invited Chaslynn, our dear friend, to get away for a bit and join us. Nathan visited 5 or 6 schools in Pensacola. The Swindles were amazing as we talked through big moves and God’s plans. They introduced us to an elder at their church named Scott Watson. Scott had been a coach for years and knew many coaches along the emerald coast. He helped Nathan set up times to meet coaches that weekend. He had connections with many places. There is no doubt he was another God send. Nathan went to schools in Pensacola, Navarre and Gulf Breeze. Scott said that the coach at FWB was busy that day but that he would do Scott a favor and meet with this guy (Nathan) for a few minutes. We decided to stop by FWB on our way back to TN. It was the last stop of the day. Nathan dropped the girls off at the beach while he went to meet Coach Owens a few miles away. After 2 hours of his “stop by”, he came back to get the girls. Nathan said it went very well. He and Coach Owens had a great conversation but there was not a position available. He didn’t think there would be one for the next school year. Pulling out of the parking lot at the beach, Chaslynn asked us what our desire was. We talked it through and realized that FWB was our number 1 pick but it was looking like that was the one that wouldn’t have a spot available.



In that time with Coach Owens, Nathan brought up what Becca did with RAVE. Now this might not seem like a big deal, but it’s a HUGE part of this story. Nathan said he felt compelled to share with Coach Owens about RAVE and what the ministry does for teen girls. After telling him that, Coach Owens gave him a card with his daughter’s name on it and told him to have Becca call his daughter when she had a chance because she has a cool testimony. Get ready! God shows off again… No, no, this story deserves a post all to its own. Just know that Becca and Nathan became very close to Coach Owens’ daughter Jessica who just so happened to be living in Nashville at the time. Yes, I know, crazy!  


We kept in touch with the coaches Nathan met all throughout May. We loved getting to know Jessica more too. We finished out the school year strong in TN and were excited to see what God had planned. We were however getting a little anxious as it was the end of May and nothing seemed to be really happening. Nathan got an email late May that said FWB still didn’t look like it would have something available. Knowing this, he pursued the Pensacola jobs and even a couple in Nashville even though our hearts’ desire was FWB. We had to start getting ready for a big event with RAVE and we had to order shirts. As we were deciding with the team about what verse to put on the shirts, the Lord let us know that Ephesians 3:20 would be perfect. Putting that verse on the RAVE shirts was a truth claimer for us. We knew HE had MORE – we just didn’t know where or when.


Becca received a call from Jessica (Coach Owens’ daughter) in mid-June. She said while boating with her dad she had learned that a coach recently left FWBHS and he didn’t know who he would get to replace him. Right then Jessica said, “I do.” Jessica talked to Coach Owens about that guy you met a few weeks named Nathan Daniel. Soon after, Nathan got an email from him. We took a trip down here late June and that was that. The school that didn’t seem to have anything coming available all of a sudden had a spot in football and teaching science. Two short weeks later Nathan found himself driving down I-65!  Nathan found a home with some great help from his aunt and cousin who were on vacation at the time, yet another God send. We moved in and settled into our home in late July, just before football practice cranked up several notches!
 
 

So friends, here we are exactly one year later. ONE YEAR.

Number one school Nathan wanted… Ft. Walton Beach?  CHECK.

Solid, lifelong friendships that were established along the way with the Owens and Swindles? CHECK.

Still maintaining relationships with friends and family? CHECK. (the Quality time we get here with others is amazing!)

Does God answer prayer? YES. Does HE like bold prayers? He absolutely does.

We sometimes forget how awesome God is. On days where we miss family and friends from TN, we remind ourselves how God completely and totally orchestrated this move for us. At times we get caught up in praying mediocre prayers but after thinking back we are challenged to pray MORE.

Ephesians 3:20 was our 2013 verse of the year. In thinking what we wanted 2014 to be we chose Matthew 21:22: “Ask anything in my name and if you have faith, you shall receive it.”


May we all strive to have the faith to ask ANYTHING. On days where you wonder if God cares about the little specific things you want or the big desires you dream, remember to pray BOLDLY in His name. “Bold prayers honor GOD. And GOD honors bold prayers. GOD isn’t offended by your biggest dreams or boldest prayers. He is offended by anything less.”


We can’t wait to share more of our dreams and our prayers with you. Get ready! After what we have been praying in 2014 for Matthew 21:22 to be answered, we are pumped to see what He has.

 
Keep dreamin!

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